Discover soothing relief and sensual pleasure with this Lovehoney mon ami Hot and Cold Massager. Crafted from silky-smooth body safe silicone, it’s designed to ease tension across your body and enhance your intimate moments.
This innovative toy combines 6 powerful vibrations with temperature play, offering instant transition from warming heat (up to 100°F) to cooling relief (down to 64. 4°F). Sleek and ergonomic in a pebble-shaped design, it measures 2 inches in length and 4. 4 inches in circumference, and fits comfortably in the palm of your hand.
With 6 vibration functions and strong, intense sensations, this sleek massager delivers pleasurable relief wherever you need it most, whether that’s for menstrual cramp pains, soothing aching muscles, or adding thrilling temperature sensations to your play.
Fully waterproof with an IPX7 rating, it’s ideal to enjoy during your relaxing bath or shower sessions. The handy travel lock keeps your massager safely off and discreetly hidden while stored, while the rechargeable design provides up to 60 minutes of runtime.
Whether you’re seeking therapeutic relief or sensual exploration, this versatile massager adapts to your needs with the touch of a button. For the best experience, use your massager with a generous amount of water-based lubricant. Clean thoroughly after use with warm water and unscented soap, or sex toy cleaner.
Lovely sensations
I love this little toy! The hot and cold aspects really level it up, especially the cold. I've not really played around with temperature play so much, so when I saw this I was intrigued. The different temperatures work really well to ramp up the arousal when using them, rather than going straight for a finale, I actually spent time on the journey (which was a nice change). My favourite is definitely the cold, although I did spend the most time using it during a heatwave, so my favourite might be the warm setting in winter. Overall I'm really happy with this toy, it's something I've never tried before!
Amazing massage!
Loved this, the change between the hot and cold temperature was so quick and this really added to the massage. It was easy to use, the vibrations are good and the quality felt great. Would definitely recommend!
Easy temperature play!
A very powerful vibe and a great way to introduce temperature play that is safe and controlled, with no prep.
Strangely fun
This arrived in the normal plain packaging that LH are known for. So opening this up I was greeted with a lovely looking box that contained the massager. I was surprised at how small it was and was sceptical that it would be any good. I am glad to say I was wrong.
So there are three main modes for this massager, there is normal operation, warm and then cold. There are various speeds and frequency of vibrations as well. The overall area of the effect is quite small but still very effective for the vibration effects to be felt.
Using the hot and cold settings was something that surprised as I wasn't sure how something so small could do both especially when changing. So it warms up and cools down really quickly and I even found the heat setting to be quite good for specific sore spots on the muscles, but not what it was probably intended for.
great foreplay, not quite enough to orgasm
Received as a research sample, and tried several times. This toy is really good for foreplay and the warming and cooling really gets things exciting. Unfortunately, not quite enough for orgasm, but use it to warm things up and that'll happen later!
A fun little pocket sized toy
Overall, this is a nice vibrator. As usual it comes in nice premium packaging which makes it feel like a special product.
The toy itself is made of high quality silicone and the buttons are very easy to use. One side of the toy is made of a material that changes temperature when the hot and cold modes are activated.
When in cold mode, that side of the product gets noticeably cold which is a very pleasurable sensation. We enjoy using it both for pleasure and for massage.
When in hot mode, the toy gets slightly hotter but it’s far less noticeable than the cold mode. The difference in temperature from normal doesn’t make a material difference when using the toy for pleasure or for massage.
The toy has a range of power vibrations. Both the power and the rhythm of the vibrations are excellent and are very pleasurable.
The toy isn’t too loud which is an added bonus given its power.
Overall, it’s a very enjoyable toy that provides a gateway to hot and cold play, albeit that the cold mode is noticeably more effective. We would recommend.
Excellent little massager
This arrived in LH trademark sleek packaging, the box was sturdy and highlighted the quality of this product.
Initially upon unboxing this massager I was surprised at how small it was but I was pleasantly surprised by the strength of vibrations. The variety of speeds were excellent and the implementation of hot and cold elements added a level of surprise I was not expecting.
The hot did get noticeably warmer which supported this devices massaging excellence whilst the cold did indeed quickly get cool to the touch.
This device was a nice surprise and we both enjoyed the sensations of the powerful and quality vibrations.
Very pleased with our product and have enjoyed incorporating this after a long day or as a warm up for the main session.
Cool Vibes
Firstly a big thank you to Lovehoney for providing this toy to test. This has proved to be a valued addition to our collection.
Of course fast delivery as always, and wonderful packaging.
I have to say I was very curious to get hands on with this toy. The 'cold' feature particularly intrigued me. So let's clear something up, the cold feature does not turn the toy into an ice cube! But the toy has a little pad which cools and heats dependant on preference, and to be fair it did cool enough for both myself and my OH to notice and enjoy the effect. When you're hot and sweaty this is a "cool" feature to have. So the temperature functions are as expected and a nice touch, but the more important part is the vibrations. This feature of the toy is fantastic! The modes are plentiful and easy to cycle through, and they are very powerful. You can even turn off the hot/cold and just have the vibes.
The vibrations feel deep, like only a good quality sex toy can provide. They are strong and the battery lasts ages so there's plenty uninterrupted pleasure to be had.
I will say that given the shape of the toy the vibrations aren't as pin point accurate when compared with a small powerful bullet vibe, for example. I think this is so you can place the pad onto your skin and get an overall wave of vibration and the hot/cold sensations simultaneously. Because of this we felt the toy suited clit stimulation more than penis pleasure. However having used this toy extensively on both, it is well worth getting no matter what erogenous zone you are targeting.
When lube is introduced, this little thing is like a slippery pebble! Not a negative, just a warning.
Overall, this brilliant little toy packs quite a punch. We were very pleased with the temperature functions, but the vibrations are what make it. Plus it looks cute so it fits in well with our existing toy collection.
Nice little change
I was really excited to try this out and when it arrived, I loved how it looked.
Packaging is as neat as ever, a nice and small box that has the information you need right there.
I love the colour of this massager, it's lovely to have a deeper mint green for a bit of a change. It's super smooth to touch. There's a small area on the underside where the temperature changes can be felt. There are 3 buttons - and on/off, cold and warm. All very self explanatory, which I love. It has several speeds for continuous vibrations and also several patterns too. The intensity of the vibrations is very good, definitely strong enough but also can adjust where you hold it for it to be a bit more mellow of you would prefer.
The cooling and heating features are interesting. I enjoyed trying this out and actually found it quite nice to mix the temperatures up for different areas and experience a change of sensations. It definately makes this stand out from others.
Can be slightly tricky to hold in place when with a partner but still worked well for us.
It has the usual handy features that Lovehoney tend to include - travel lock, super easy to charge and waterproof. Makes it very quick and easy to clean.
It's also isn't the most obvious shape, so might be a good choice for travel, when you're slightly more vulnerable to people seeing your belongings! I don't think it would immediately jump to people's minds as much as other shapes would. Just thought that may be a plus for some people.
Definitely recommend giving this a go
Hot Powerful Sensation ! But not cold enough !
The Mon ami brand is one of our favourites, you always get quality products in quality packaging and this did not disappoint.
Perfect sized massaging toy, feels like a quality toy, silky feel and fits in the palm of your hand like a pebble stone massager.
It is easy to operate with three simple buttons, heat , cold and vibrate.
The cycle of vibration levels is AMAZING, the intensity levels are so powerful! Equally it’s fully waterproof so great in the bath and so easy to keep clean. When in use we would say it’s not too loud , but definitely know it’s on, but happy to accept noise for the levels of power it gives.
Charging is simple enough like most toys now, USB connection and magnetic connection.
The temperature plate has again a quality feel and we could instantly feel the warmth of the toy in the heat setting, but struggled to feel much difference with the cold setting.
Wife - Love the sensual use of this toy , and even though I could not feel the cold setting enough to make a difference. . the heat and powerful vibration made up for it!!
Husband - As a couple I always often start with a body massage, so this is perfect. It needs lubricants or oil to glide the body smoothly. There was no difficulty in the massager giving my wife very intense orgasms! The strength of power in this little toy is unbelievable! Such strong vibration levels.
All round a great toy, which will get lots of use as a great foreplay toy to HEAT up the body and enhance our massages.
Powerful sensual little massager
The massager is as expected from the mon ami range. The packaging is great and the presentation inside the outer cover is very well thought out and displays the massager very well. So much so that I couldn't wait to try it out as soon as it was out of the packaging.
It certainly has a premium look and feel to match. I love the texture and it fits in my hand perfectly.
Just add some of your favourite lube and away you go. I have used this several times and I can conclude that the warm setting is very nice, but the cold setting does nothing for me sadly. I am sure some people will love the cold sensation.
After trying all the settings and speeds I can’t decide on a favourite out of the three constant vibrations or the 8 different pulsating options, then of course all of these settings in hot or cold mode. Wow, way too much choice. However, I do like the constant fastest constant setting, the vibrations are a mix of deep/heavy yet super light and super-fast, this gives an amazing sensation. The massager has the ability to give me some of the best orgasms I have had from any outside stimulation. Even when I was not really feeling horny and felt the need for some self-love, it managed to steadily bring me to full arousal. It works very well indeed when in the shower.
I love the magnetic charger lead as it is super easy to charge. The massager, when fully charged was, for me, good for three sessions so that’s a bonus.
As if that were not enough, the introduction of my favourite butt plug while using the massager took my orgasm to another dimension.
The massager is small, powerful, discrete, ergonomically very good so hits the right spot every time. It would not look out of place if left out and I can’t wait to take it away with us on our upcoming holidays.
This massager has very quickly become my new best friend, and my poor husband isn’t getting a look in right now.
Really great in a non sexy way!
Love the look and feel of this little massager, soft and smooth silicone which feels nice against the skin and then the little metal area which changes temperature.
I've never had a temperature changing toy/massager before so I wasn't sure what it would be like. I did find that the temperature change is a little more subtle than I was expecting it to be, neither getting quite as hot as I wanted or as cold as I thought it would, but saying that it was still a nice noticeable change in temperature. I'd say it was warm or cool, rather than hot or icy! I think I was just expecting a bit too much from the little thing! I do still like it though and I was impressed by how quickly it changed temp, especially from warm to cold.
In comparison to the subtleness of the temperature, there is nothing subtle about the vibrations on this thing! It is way more powerful than it's size makes it look. The vibrations are deep and heavy, particularly on the first slow speed setting, which has become my favourite setting. There are also some pattern settings that are pretty nice too. However because of the power it does mean this isn't the quietest toy!
Now, when it comes to the use of this toy, for me personally it did very little as a vibrator. It wasn't the temperature I wanted, the vibrations were too heavy and the shape didn't hit the spot, so no orgasm at all.
HOWEVER, used across the knots in my shoulder after a stressful day at work. . . Blissful!! 💓 The slow thud of the vibration really relaxed my aching muscles and the gentle warmness of it seeped into my skin in the nicest calmest way! I now use this all the time just for a good massage. And it worked against period cramps too!
So if you're looking for a sexy orgasmic massage this might not be the best toy, but if you want to destress and relax aching muscles, I would so recommend this little baby!
I wouldnt accent on hot/cold qualities on this massager in its name
Very strong vibrations with a good style of it but expected more from hot/cold promise. Can be used as relaxing tool, or stimulation.
What i did like about the design is that its comfy to hold it if you have an intimate game. Shaped nicely, slightly off smashed egg shape. Has pointy edge, vibrations arent based only in one particular spot, the whole toy vibrates. Very very strong vibrations, definetely not quiet. What else I liked about vibrations is that at the end of all settings it goes from hardest (3 most used ones, constant vinrations) to the weakest.
Coming back to design. The hot/cold pallet is on the "smashed" side, rather than being on the sharp edge. It is warming up, not too hot. But can be helpfull relaxing muscles. Not very well based for the play. And the cold, is simply just cooling it down rather than being cold.
Its easy to use it. And wash it. Has magnetic charger no holes for collecting debri. I chuck the box away and tried to travel lock it but its doesnt work as usually pressimg two buttons. Dont be me and read the instruction! Its said it has it!
Good battery life, with such a strong vibrations i would expect 1-2 sessions. But this things has life in it. Definetely good quality, even if it doesnt cover all the edges it is good as vibrating tool.
Overally. Happy with the purchase as vibrating toy.
Powerful on sensitive areas
As always, the Mon Ami product line from Lovehoney comes in a sleek and well designed package, making it a great gift. The instructions both on the box and in the pamphlet are clear and easy to understand.
The product itself is fantastic. It’s made of the unbelievably soft body safe silicon that you can expect from Lovehoney products, so it feels great in the hand and on any part of the body you may use it on. The three buttons are easy to press and the modes are easy to cycle through. The most powerful vibration mode is unbelievably strong, 10 out of 10 for that mode.
Onto the main selling point for this massager, that being the hot and cold element. Firstly as I said previously, changing between the hot and cold modes is very easy and shouldn’t present any problems, even mid session. I was immediately impressed by how quickly the massager both heats and cools. Holding it in my hand now, it takes about four seconds until I notice the temperature change and about three more seconds to reach its peak very impressive for a device as little as this. Key to this review is how hot and how cold the device gets. Exact temperatures can be found on the website and on the box but from personal experience I’ll say that it gets sufficiently hot and cold when used on sensitive areas, like the nipples or clit. On those areas the temperature is highly stimulating and adds to the overall sensation provided by the vibrations. On other parts of the body I don’t really feel like it gets hot enough or cool enough to deliver a meaningful change in temperature so for those looking to use it elsewhere, this device may not quite deliver the results you’re looking for. For those looking to use it on sensitive areas as a supplement to the vibrations used to achieve orgasm I highly recommended it.
Hot, Cold & Seriously Unique
We tried the Lovehoney Mon Ami Hot and Cold Massager and it’s definitely a unique addition to our collection. The smooth finish feels great, and it heats up or cools down really quickly, within about 5 seconds.
The warming side is really noticeable and enjoyable, while the cooling feature is there but could be a bit stronger.
It’s easy to use and works really well alongside another toy for internal stimulation, making it great for both solo and couple play.
The vibrations add a nice extra layer too. It is a little loud, but under covers it’s barely noticeable, and the battery life is impressive.
The only downsides for us were the weaker cooling effect and that we weren’t huge fans of the overall design
Great temperature sensations from a powerful little pebble!
The Lovehoney Mon Ami Hot/Cold Massager was delivered in Lovehoney's usual discreet, plain, minimal packaging - no hint of what was inside.
The Massager packaging is similar to the rest of the Mon Ami range very much in a good way - the main box slides out with a clear plastic cover with the toy, accessories and guides neatly inside. I think most of the packaging is recyclable which we like.
As well as the Massager you get a magnetic usb charging cable, safety guide and quick start instructions. The box has a useful summary of the main features.
The Massager itself feels high quality; it's made of body safe silicone in a sort of teal/green colour and is weighty to hold. It's a pebble shape with the central heating/cooling pad in the middle on the flatter side, with 3 simple buttons on the edge and a magnetic usb charge connector on the bottom.
So features - they pack a lot in for such a small toy. The heating pad can cool to 18 degrees centigrade or heat to 38. The vibrations mode supposedly has 6 patterns but I think it has more - slowly on, faster on, fastest on, waves, on/off pattern, two/three pattern, on off again, waves again. So not sure - couldn't tell the precise difference between some modes but hey at least it's more than advertised! It is waterproof with an IPX7 rating, has a travel lock, and will run for 60 minutes after 120 minutes of charging.
Charging is straightforward - the magnetic usb charger connects firmly and well - it takes a lot to shake it off and we have many toys with far worse magnetic connectors. It is USB A and while that probably helps keep the price down I wonder whether we will see more USB C soon.
Using the toy is straightforward - the power button is press and hold for on/off, and it cycles the several speeds/patterns. The snowflake button activates the cooling, and the sun button does the heat. You can also activate the temperature mode without the vibrations, which is really useful.
The toy is impressive. The vibrations are strong and the patterns are a great variety of speeds and intensity. The temperature is really effective - it is very quick to activate and hit either temperature. Combining the hot/cold with the vibrations is really interesting to explore and they give fantastic sensations.
The slight downside for us is that the vibrations are quite uniform across the toy - some toys will have more intense spots than others, where this doesn't. But it's a minor point. The bigger downside is we found the toy quite hard to hold with the vibrations active after a period of play. It is not very ergonomic to hold but in fairness this is clearly by design. The upside of this is it is easier to lay on, or put inside underwear for example. So not a showstopper.
Overall it is a great toy - probably more for foreplay than for reaching orgasm, or at least used with another toy as well. The sensations are varied and fun to explore, and the vibrations are powerful for such a small toy. Another great value toy for the Mon Ami range.
Neither hot enough, nor cold enough to be fun
A stylish vibrator that doubles as a temperature play device, this should be perfect!?
The device is a bright, pebble-shaped silicone toy. On the underside is a small metallic plate for the temperature function, about an inch or so in diameter. The three buttons are for vibration pattern, hot or cold.
Being quite a large, rounded massager, it's fine for general area simulation, but difficult to use on the clit and reach orgasm. If you enjoy similar lovehoney toys, you'd get on with the vibrations here.
What we really wanted was the temperature element, and we're sadly disappointed. It warms up and cools down pretty quickly, however, it's not enough for us to really notice. Even blind folded, it just feels cool or warm. Any metal toy would feel cool for a while and any vibe toy warms up after a while. It's not extreme enough.
The heat plate is also sadly too small to be noticeable. The tech in interesting, but it needs a stronger execution for us to be satisfied.
As with other toys, you need to use the vibration function to enable the other fun bits. We would love to just use the heat plate on its own.
Using it in a club, however, a few people were curious about the device and want to try it out
Innovative massager
The box containing this massager has a opening door allowing a view of the pebble shaped toy inside. The hot/cold functionality is made clear by symbols on the packaging.
The box also contains a charging cable and brief instructions.
The blue colour of the massager alludes to its cooling function. There are 3 buttons which light up when pressed. Their logos are just visible, but colour coded lights for hot and cold would be useful. The on/off, vibration pattern button is self explanatory.
The toy fits nicely in the hand and it's tactile, rubbery surface provides plenty of grip.
There is a smooth plate on on of the flat surfaces that will warm up or cool down if desired. The toy seemed to swap from hot to cold quite quickly, within 30 seconds or so. There was a noticeable difference between the two temperatures, but it never really became particularly hot or cold. The plate providing the sensations was also quite small, which also minimised the impact somewhat.
The pocket size and strong vibration did lend themselves to an effective orgasm for my wife, but I'm not sure the heating/cooling function contributed much. This aspect works better when used as part of a massage.
Even without the heating/cooling function the toy is a good, effective ergonomic external vibrator.
An novel idea for a sex toy, just let down by a lack of extremes with the temperature changes- not sure if this is possible given the technology involved.
Great for beginners to temperature play
I was kindly gifted this Hot/Cold Massager in return for an honest review. Thanks LH!
So I’ve never owned anything like this before and I have never done temperature play before so when the chance came up to test this- I grabbed it! I wasn’t sure what to expect but I love it. It’s sleek, silky soft and so much fun! Great for beginners to temperature play. I love its versatility and it’s fun to use in foreplay and even solo if the urge takes you.
I personally preferred the hot option to the toy but it’s fun to switch between the two- depending on your mood and it’s great to be able to switch between the different speed settings. I found it takes about 30 seconds to feel the temperature change on toy. But it’s not too hot or too cold! Great addition to our toy selection!
Exciting sensation play!
We have used warming toys before, and while cold doesn't anyways invoke sexy thoughts, this was an exciting new addition to our toy box.
The quality of the toy is evident even from how it is presented and packaged and by eye it just looks like a regular pebble vibe, is it was just that it would still be a good toy. The vibrations are super strong for such a small massager, and the usual levels and patterns. The colour is amazing, I love to have some variety in the toybox and we don't have anything this vibrant shade until now.
The heating and cooling is what really set this toy apart. The toy has a relatively small plate on the flat side where the tempreture changes happen. The tempreture changes are quick and an impressive range, it takes no time at all to get cold even if you just had it on warm for a long time.
We use this toy during restraint play and with a blindfold its a great addition to keep you partner guessing about what is coming next for them. From that perspective this is a 10/10 toy.
The one small downside is the size and position of the warming and cooling plate. I would have loved this to extend over the tip section, which could mean it would be used for more pinpoint application. It would also have been amazing if it was just slightly bigger as this is the main headline feature of the toy.
Overall it is still a great toy, and as far as I am concerned, the cooling function is witchcraft!
mon ami Hot & Cold Massager
This massager was new ground for me - I’d never tried a product that claimed to have heating or cooling properties before, so I was really excited to give it a go!
The mon ami packaging is really nice and unintimidating. Inside you get the toy and a charging cable. My unit arrived with a flat battery so a full charge was in order. The magnetic charging contact isn’t the strongest and did disconnect quite easily when knocked, so make sure it’s up somewhere out of the way when charging.
The massager looks great. It’s my favourite colour (which helps!) and the silicone is on par with luxury products. The flat shiny plastic area is where you feel the heating or cooling effect.
The toy has 3 buttons - one for vibration, one for cooling, and one for heating. You can have the vibration running at the same time as either the heating or cooling function.
In use I found the vibrations to be of a moderate strength, which gets a little buzzy on the higher speeds. I don’t really use pattern/‘morse code’ settings and would prefer more constant speed settings.
I didn’t know what to expect from the heating/cooling, but found it more effective than I was expecting. I don’t notice the heated setting when used around my vulva as I guess the area is warmer than the toy gets? I can feel the cooling there, but it doesn’t add a lot to the experience for me. The hot/cold are more noticeable when the toy is used as a massager on other parts of the body, though, in my opinion, the toy is far too small to give an effective massage.
Overall, I had a pleasant experience with this toy. It’s a neat little thing and the features do work (to an extent) as advertised.
An pleasureful yet intimate feel
At first we was sceptical if the temperature switch would be as noticeable as it is. It made fir very interesting variations in play and switching from one setting to the other is super simple.
The build quality is second to none, like all other mon ami toys we own and use regularly, and the materials are amazing.
The cool temperature setting it amazing when the throws of passion are in full swing, and it accelerates the temperature difference when used intimately.
We highly recommend this as a toy, massager, solo play or as a couple.
Your seductive foreplay friend!
Have you ever enjoyed playing with sensations as part of foreplay? Also found it frustrating how messy icecubes can become, and how logistically difficult it is keeping hotstones around?
Well, this might just be your answer - it has been for us!
This little vibrator fits nicely within a palm, and acts as a natural extension to your hand. Which feels very intentional.
We wouldn't categorise this as our go to day-to-day vibrator, we have others for that. But for foreplay and sensation play this is exceptional.
The main feature lies in the two functions that either heats up the main "plate" or cools it down. It is not fast, but it works, and it means you can easily include in sensual massages, touch, and sensation play.
Due to the vibrations, it also helps with easing muscle tensions and creating stronger feelings in the nerves around the body. Naturally, it carries all the power to continue acting as a vibrator when things progress to intercourse.
All in all, we really enjoy this and it is quickly becoming part of our rotation. Not day-to-day, but for those special times when we have more time to enjoy being together, and this helps make it even more special.
Our only little comment is, we haven't found a way to make the temperature function work without the vibrations, which would have made it even better in our opinion.
Hot to cold at the press of a button
The heating and cooling functions of this are really very impressive. Just one button press and in about 10 seconds, you've got a dramatic change, even when going from one extreme to the other. The vibrations has a good level of control without the jumps from one level to the next being too extreme. The only downside is that the shape is wide and flat, which makes it difficult to apply pressure in the right places. Definitely still gets the job done, and the sensitivity that the hot/cold switching brings in does make up for the shape if you can get it in the right place.
Mon Ami, il fait chaud
Mon Ami in French means "my friend" well let us tell you now we will be friends with this toy for a long time.
As a big fan of LH Mon Ami range we were overjoyed to receive this toy as a tester for an honest review.
The Mon Ami range always produce sleek looking toys and this one doesn't disappoint.
Package is well detailed listing the various functions which are 6 vibration settings, Hot & Cold massage functions which I will come on to, 60 mins of runtime, travel lock, and fully waterproof yay 😀
The toy is shaped like a medium sized people soft and silky to the touch, with 3 easy buttons and magnetic usb charging.
Simple press of the on button and away you go but this is where they massager comes into its own with a vey unique feature of hot and cold buttons which control a pad on the base of the toy.
According to the instructions it can supposedly heat to 100degrees and cool to 64degrees.
However I can only seem to get it up to approx what I would say about 70-75degrees and not 100, though not sure why it would operate at boiling point seems a bit unsafe to me so for this alone this is why I give it 4 star instead of 5. It cools down nicely as it says just doesn't get super hot.
By the way you dont need to have the toy vibrations on to use the hot / cold feature which is a nice touch.
As for the vibrations its a powerful toy and gave strong orgasms so no complaints there, but note of if you want discreet its very loud.
Its a brilliant concept to have the massage functions just which I could get it a bit hotter.
Overall its a great toy to own and its not obvious what it is if you leave out in error.
Vibrations good, but not directed enough
Likely due to technical constraints, the temperature section of the vibrator is a large flat pad rather than at the point, which doesn't suit my body particularly well. For someone a large flat area suits this would likely be perfect. The temperatures are not extreme, but give a subtle difference, both hot and cold, more noticeable on the hot side for me.
Sensational play pebble!
Sensation play is all about stimulating different nerves to get the whole body into a heightened state. This massager is lots of that wrapped into a single toy.
It is a powerful pebble vibrator which has a rumbling slow mode when you turn it on. This is great for massaging with a bit of pressure. The next modes become much more tingly for lighter touches or once you get to intimate areas.
The toys other feature is a metallic plate on the side that with or without the vibrations can cool or warm up. I think describing it as hot or cold goes a bit far but it certainly adds a different sensation to play with.
Grab a blindfold and have some fun!
Great looking toy
This one intrigued us somewhat. Is it a massager or a vibrator? I'm still not sure, despite what the packaging states ha ha.
With that being said, let's get into the review.
As always the LH outer packaging is super discreet, so you won't have any nosey neighbours.
Once you open this one up, the packaging is nice, robust and not cheap looking at all. Solid box with the toy clearly on show in the middle.
The toy itself looks lovely. It's almost like a pumice stone. Fits well in one hand and it's smooth silicone. The colour is really eye catching too.
It has 3 different functions to control the vibration surface. One to control the vibrations, which there are nine great powerful options. The second is to turn on the heat feature, taking the surface up to a pleasant 38 degrees celcius. The third option is to have the cooling feature, which takes it back down to 18 degrees celcius.
The vibrations are strong on this, almost too strong. I don't want to say this in a bad way, but when holding it, your hand feels funny after a while due to the vibrations throughout the toy.
The hot and cold features are really nice, although when I switched on the warm one to start, it did feel like I was weeing ha ha. This soon past though when the vibes took me to a very pleasant orgasm! You can use this without the hot/cold feature too which is nice.
This toy is fully waterproof, for in shower or bath play and is really simple to charge, with a full charge lasting about an hour.
It's really simple to charge and charges up quick. There is also a travel lock feature to avoid any unnecessary embarrassment when traveling away.
Overall, a lovely toy, but not my go to. May be different for others though, so recommend giving it a try yourselves.
Wow
This massager is insane we recently recived this toy and omg what a toy it is
Pros
So let's start with the looks , amazing packaging, great sleek looking massager.
Power is insanely good for a rechargeable toy.
The hot and cold modes are on point great addition to a toy.
Love the multiple speed settings.
Cons
Fairly loud but is very much expected with the power it has.
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Something that could improve the toy would be add the temperature plates on the sides too
I struggle to find a con for this toy.
Definitely one of our new favourites
We would recommend this to anyone
Amazing versatile Hot/Cold Massager
First impressions are very good for this compact quality toy. The packaging is well thought out and has a tamper seal to preserve integrity. The contents of the box: Instructions, USB magnetic charger and Hot/Cold massager.
The design of the toy is very well constructed and fits perfectly into any hand and feel very good. With 3 buttons, power, Hot and cold. It is very easy to use and with a long press on the power button the toy starts vibration and hot and cold with a simple press. With a double press of the power button the temperature function can be operated.
Very easy to clean this IPX7 toy can be full submerge during play or cleaning.
Water based lubricant is to be used but I found the toy works perfectly without.
Charging the toy will take approximately 120 mins to allow 60 mins of play but can be longer depending on how many functions are used. The charging connection is very effective and has a strong magnetic coupling.
The hot function is amazing and can reach 38'C which adds an amazing element to play. The cool function was very surprising and drops the surface temperature to 18'C even if following after the hot function. It has 11 different intensity and patterns with the strongest surprisingly effective.
Very impressed overall with this toy and can be used solo or as part of play with your partner. As part of foreplay or during intercourse it adds another level to any play. Highly recommend.
My New Favourite Toy!!!
Where do i begin. . . . This toy is simply amazing and a must have in everybody's collection. Shaped like a pebble and smooth to touch. It fits perfectly in your hand and is big enough to reach all the places you would want. There is so many different vibration functions and it is as powerful as many wands. . . yes you read that correctly :D. To add to this excitement, there is a hot and cold function!! The hot function whilst being intimate with your partner is mindblowing! It's like oral foreplay going on at the same time, who wouldn't love that! The cold function is colder than expected too. No more need for ice cubes to increase excitement, which of course is much more practical and less messy. Now another benefit. . . this toy is waterproof!!! Curiosity got the better of me and i just couldn't wait to try the cold function whilst having a bath. . . I'll let your imagination run wild with that one! It does not disappoint :D. I have used this toy for solo play, couple's foreplay and during intimacy. It's soo versatile, simple to use and without a doubt my new favourite and most reached for toy!!!
Hot vs cold
We both (MF) like sensory and temperature play, and are loving seeing more temperature toys coming to market.
The Lovehoney mon ami Hot and Cold Massager is a nice toy to add to our collection, it's not one that stands out as an intense toy, fitting better as part of our teasing and sensory collection. Although, it has made both of us cum.
It could be the time of year with it getting warmer, but we both preferred the cold setting, finding it more noticeable and giving a bigger impact. Maybe in the winter the warm setting might have a bigger impact, we'll have to wait and see.
The vibration settings are good, with three easy to use buttons on the side, two to swap between hot and cold (the one in use lights up) and one button to cycle through vibration intensities and patterns, which I think is actually one of its downsides. If you reach a setting that is too intense or enter patterns you can't go back, you have to cycle all the way through. This can be distracting and impacts how effective it is for tease play if you're someone who likes to move up and down in intensity. But, if you just want to use it for the temperature play it can be used with the vibrations turned off, which is a great setting if you're session is just focusing on the temperature aspect, and if this is the main thing you're looking for then it's worth noting that the change between hot and cold (and vise versa) is very quick!
Adding temperature to the bedroom!
Straight out of the box this product is just beautiful. Arrives in packaging that you can tell is high end.
We were intrigued to give this one a go mainly due to the temperature change and wanted to know what this brought to playtime.
The product itself sits comfortable in the palm of your hand and is easy to grip. The buttons on the side allow for an array of speeds with really good vibrations along with the choice of a hot or cold setting.
We used both settings and you can certainly feel it getting hot or cold but for us we wanted that little bit more. Of course you dont want it to get super hot but just a little more than luke warm would have made for a better experience. The cold setting is good but again wanted that little bit more.
A real positive is the build of the product. The buttons are well made and easy to change between settings. With these toys you can sometimes find it difficult to change during use but not with this one. The vibrations are also really strong so yet another positive.
Charging is nice and simple too with the two magnetic prongs on the outside.
Overall a really interesting toy. Vibrations are really good but we felt it just needed a little more with the hot & cold. Of course it’s down to the individual as to how hot or cold you want it so certainly give this a go!
Good idea, but wanted more
Was quite excited at the thought of this, first impressions were good. Sexy packaging, really sleek toy which has been designed very well with a nice feeling silicone and pebble shape.
The hot/ cold function is an interesting idea, but the temperature came from one spot and wasn’t really hot or cold enough to make a big impact. Also felt like although the vibration patterns are good, because of the shape, it isn’t enough to get to climax on your clit (which I know isn’t the main goal here), and as a massager on each others bodies, didn’t bring much extra benefit.
Too hot to handle!
This unique toy is essentially a key to an intimate a hot stone massage.
The concept is so different, and it’s super versatile, with great battery life and more discreet to travel with.
It has nice low rumbley vibrations, and it’s more comfortable to hold in place during play with my partner.
Just be warned, the heat setting did slightly melt the dildo I used during my first test run! Proving that this massager is definitely too hot to handle!
A Game Changer for Our Temperature Play
This toy surprised us both in a great way.
First thing, it feels quality straight away. Nice weight to it, smooth finish, and it actually looks decent as well instead of being something you’d want to hide straight away. It’s also very discreet.
The hot and cold feature is what makes it. It’s not instant, but once it kicks in you notice it. The warm setting builds nicely and the cold side is really refreshing. Switching between the two is unreal, especially around more sensitive areas. It’s not just for one spot either, it works really well all over.
Vibrations are solid too. Strong enough and a good mix of settings without being over complicated.
Being waterproof is a bonus and makes it easy to clean, which is always a win.
Only downside really is waiting a bit for the temperature to change, but it’s not a big deal. It’s also surprisingly quiet.
Didn’t expect it to, but it’s definitely opened up a new kind of play for us. We can now use this along side other toys as this can be used absolutely anywhere either the vibrations and the temperature changes.
This is a great little toy, offering a hot and cold sensation along with vibrations. The vibrations have different strengths and patterns as would be expected and can be used both with hot, cold or alone. The hot/cold can also be used without any vibration for a pressure/grind if you prefer.
It's about palm sized and feels like a smooth pebble with a slightly narrower end should you want more direct vibrations rather than an overall buzz. The hot/cold patch is large enough to be used directly on certain areas or again, a wider area depending what you fancy. It being palm sized meant it's easy to hold, simple to use with 3 buttons but can be laid flatter in your palm and pressed onto/grinding onto or held more on your fingers and directed as wanted.
It's rechargable although not a standard charger (2 metal contact points) which are magnetic and although it doesn't look like it'll stay on charge, it really does!
I also like the texture and feel as it's not sticky as some toys can be meaning less fluffy/dust/hair stick to it, and being fully waterproof means easy cleaning!
I also thought it was fairly quiet and quite a subtle toy, and the colour a pale greenish so not too in your face.
This was a tester product so I cannot say on value for money but it comes with its own charger which is good.
Innovative pocket massager!
I was not quite sure what to expect with the hot and cold massager but have to say that it is completely unique and innovative. To be able to cool or warm areas in a safe way without risk or fear of burning or causing injury is such an excitement. It also means the massager itself is very versatile and can not just be used intimately but for any aches and pains and is a real benefit to any massage. Adding vibrations to the temperature is absolutely mind blowing. It means you can use it in multiple ways, enhancing desire and pleasure all over the body.
The vibrations are also pretty strong for such a small and discreet product and it is not overly loud either so if you have people around you could overpower the noise with background music.
The buttons are extremely easy to use and understand and the product itself feels superior quality.
Something Different and fun!
Another fab toy, something really different to play with!
I was really surprised how enjoyable the temperature changes were and how quickly you could go from one to the other. Good to play with all over your body and enjoy the different sensations with the heat and cold.
Super easy to control, multiple speed options and vibration patterns.
Best of all it’s waterproof so was great to play with in the shower!
The temperature changes really quickly depending on which option you choose. It’s also really discreet, doesn’t look like a sex toy at all so very easy to travel with and includes a travel lock so you don’t have to worry about unexpected vibrations.
It didn’t get me to orgasm but was great to use for foreplay and who knows with a bit more practice it might tick that box too!
Surprisingly powerful temperature play
We were surprised at how quick this little device changes from hot to cold!
The little panel on one side does a really good job of flipping from almost uncomfortable hot to the complete opposite! And the best part is you can do it without the vibrations too!
The vibrations are just as surprising in a small palm sized toy and are actually quite rumbley with enough variations to keep you on the edge of your seat…… or bed…. or wherever 😂
A great secondary use, in our opinion, is because it doesn’t look like any male (or female) anatomy it wouldn’t matter if it was left in the coffee table and you used it on aching muscles!
It’s very easy to use and fits nicely in the palm of your hand all though not the quietest toy it is great to use on either him or her but as with all toys like this it does make your hand tingle after prolonged use.
Elevate Your Massages
As fans of the entire mon ami range, we were very excited to play with this massager after feeling the top quality, strong vibrations and the unique hot/cold feature (changes rapidly at the click of a button).
It did not disappoint! It took our massage session to a whole new level (and a lot less messy than breaking out the wax and ice cubes). It's quickly become one of our favourite toys and will be getting used often, due to the versatile capabilities.
Hot stuff
First things first, the packaging. It was a good strong brown box, with no way of seeing what was inside, very discrete. The packaging of the actual toy was very nice, it had an outer sleeve and on the inside the toy was on display behind a sealed plastic window in a cardboard tray.
Upon opening it I ensured to fully charge it before use. It has a magnetic charger so the device is waterproof. Yet I haven’t tested the use in the shower. It took around 20 mins to get it fully charged.
It doesn’t have a strange smell at all, and the feel of it is very smooth, almost velvety. Not a hard plastic feel.
The patterns of the vibrations range from soft to a full hard mode with various patterns, so there’s plenty to work on and get you going. It’s relatively quiet on the lower rumble setting but on the highest vibration setting it’s a little louder but not overly loud.
Now for the fun part the temperature setting! You can be plain and simple and use no temperature control. Or you can set it to hot or cold. The cold setting isn’t freezing like ice cubes but more like a cool blow sort of temperature, the hot temperature setting isn’t very hot that it will cause 3rd degree burns but more around the likes of some pleasure gel type of heat.
We used this toy during some oral play and let me tell you it did not disappoint, I kept switching the temperature settings from hot to cold this kept Mrs W twitching. As she didn’t know what was coming next.
She really did enjoy this wonderful little toy, she actually said in her words that it made her cum too quickly. So it served her well. Shes had a body shaking orgasms every time we’ve used this, and every time I’ve had to stop as it made her super sensitive. In fact I had to stop oral altogether. She’s now found a special little place for it in her bedside drawer, so she can enjoy some alone playtime when I’m not around to join her. This will most definitely be used again soon, and I cant wait to use it on her again. I think she’s found her new favourite clit massager
Hot and Cold Multiuse Toy
I was sent this toy by LH to review and it’s such a lovely addition to my collection.
Firstly, the design and the two toned colour of it are beautiful. The buttons are easy to use and along the side. I liked the small pebble design but it still felt sturdy with plenty of power in its vibrations.
Secondly, the temperature feature of this toy is truly what sets it apart. There are plenty of toys out there that have a warming up option but this is the first I’ve seen that lets you use warm and cold options and switch between them effortlessly.
The temperature feature didn’t feel like it was doing much when testing on fingertips but this felt completely differently when used on more sensitive body parts! It doesn’t get very hot or cold but that’s probably a good thing so it’s safe to use. I loved the sensations of it for clitoral play but the use of lube can make the toy quite slippery. Having said that, it’s fine to use without lube. The use of lube doesn’t interfere with the vibrations but could make it difficult to hold the temperature pad in place.
The most enjoyable surprise of this toy however, was how good it was to use for nipple play! The temperature switches almost mimic the sensation of licking and blowing air on it afterwards. I love a multi-use toy and think this is one of those few toys that do this very well.
It’s not noisy on the lower settings, but like most toys, the noise level increases on the higher vibration settings.
This toy would be well suited to beginners, anyone who enjoys temperature play and folks who prefer non-phallic shaped toys. It’s easy to use and clean, relatively lightweight and very cute to look at it!
This was easy to charge and the vibrations were good. It warmed up quickly and the cool function was great. It was however quite loud and the cool function didn’t last as long as we wanted - having to reset to get it cold again.
An amazingly versatile massager in a magic little package!
Firstly the packaging for Lovehoney has come on leaps and bounds over the last few years, and this Mon Ami massager is no different! It doesn’t scream aggressively sexual, but has a really nice understated quality to it, showing off exactly what it is but with plenty of class. My biggest pet peeve is blister packs, so I always love a packet that is so easy to get in to with the cover sliding off the box and the clear covering just popping off.
I’ve never owned a warming and cooling toy before, so I went straight to the instructions and they couldn’t have been easier to follow, but I would absolutely recommend doing this still as otherwise I’d have missed being able to have the warming / cooling pad working without the vibrations on.
I wouldn’t really call this a sex toy, as it’s shaped in a way that you can use it on lots of different areas, from your most intimate to bring you orgasmic bliss, to more delicate spots where you can get the narrow ‘tip’ of the massager to really work in to any muscles. It also feels really solid and the material has a nice satin feel to it, as well as a good weight to it too giving it a premium feel.
The vibrations might not be the strongest, so in that sense it doesn’t compete with a massage gun for giving a massage, or your industrial strength bullet for sexual play, but they do give a lovely level of vibration that makes both sexual and more intimate massages really pleasurable. It is however extremely quiet, and even at its strongest is comparable to higher end bullet vibes.
The main selling point for this is the warming and cooling pad, and this is absolutely magic! At its hottest it’s 38°c so not enough to burn, but you certainly feel it against your skin. Coupled with something like an orgasm balm or a warming massage oil this feel absolutely incredible, although you may not feel it if it’s moved over thicker areas of skin quickly during a massage. The cooling function was nice, but I wouldn’t describe it as truly ‘cold’, but it will stay cooler than any other toy after a few minutes of use. What’s magic about it though is the speed that it can change temperature with one push of a button, that was absolutely incredible!
All in all we’ve absolutely fallen in love with this, and it’ll be one that comes out often even if it’s just for a massage rather than sex.
powerful toy that brings the heat
i was really excited when i first switched the toy on,
i was impressed by how powerful it was,
i love temperature play, sadly i didn't feel it got anywhere near like cold enough for me, and the heat was too warm, (maybe its because im a woman in my 40s who is naturally hot blooded), but for me i would want it twice as cold at-least, maybe with a low medium and high setting for each temperature, so there is more control and something to suit everyone
i also found the 1st time i used it the toy was heating up in my hand even on the cold setting, and got too hot for my liking
this seemed to settle after i charged it but the toy still got a bit warm in my hand while the pad cooled down (not cold in my opinion)
if you let it run on the cold setting for a bit before you put it on your skin it helps but not quite enough
i think for me its more i toy i would use with a partner rather than alone, its also quite loud
maybe it will be good in the winter if i want to warm up, but its not cold enough to cool me down in the summer like i was hoping for,
i also find the the charging point quite loose very easy to knock off, think it needs stronger or wider magnets
the vibrations are amazing though, really strong even on the lowest setting with a good choice of patterns and the temperature adds something bit different,
it fits comfortable in your hand and feels good against the skin
if heat is your go to temperature play its amazing
Super impressive!
This is such a great little toy!
The quality of the toy is lovely, it seems well constructed and the silicone coating is super soft and comfortable against the skin.
The hot/cold feature is amazing! We were really impressed with how quickly and effectively the toy could generate pleasant warming or cooling effects- whilst staying comfortable and feeling very safe.
The vibrations are good- loads of patterns and pretty decent strength! I like a mains-powered vibrator personally but this even managed to impress me! Really strong and rumbly. Fairly quiet overall too!
Really great and a wonderful addition if you want to bring some new sensations to your life!
I really look forward to using it again and again.
Lovehoney mon ami Hot and Cold Massager is a handy palm size beautiful colour with lovely smooth soft feel. Very good design, look and feel, basic controls and easy to control. A disc shape embedded within the toy which provides the heat and chill function. Simply touching the sun or ice button you can control the heat/chill pad and I was really surprised how quickly it heats and cools down. This toy can be used with some different vibrations or without. Can be used with or without the heat or ice setting on. Have no fear it really doesn’t get over hot or really cold it’s just a nice sensation. The vibrations are controlled by the on and off switch so can’t be simpler.
Instructions suggests can be used all over body which maybe nice without the vibration interesting idea. I’ve never tried and hot and cold toy before so I was very interested to try and review my thoughts and feelings.
I decided to give this a go in a warm shower, felt very good and relaxing. On the whole I wasn’t sure what to expect from this new little buddy of mine and I was impressed so I really look forward to using it again and again.
Heavy but powerful
I was curious about this toy as not sure if it was a sex toy or massage toy - on arrival I was very pleased on how it was presented in a very cute box, including magnetic charger cable and instructions
The toy is bigger than expected but I feel it more aimed as a body massager rather that for your privates
It’s got a good weight and reminds me of a pebble - weight size and very smooth
On playing you have various vibration modes and these come through very well when used on your back / legs
The heat aspect is great - heats to 38 degrees centigrade (body temperature) or can be used to cool down to 18 degrees
I feel the heat aspect would be ideal to treat back aches as it really feel good when left in a single spot for about 20 seconds
Overall I highly recommend- it’s sexy cute but really keeps you zen when your partner uses on you.
I appreciate you could use on the clit - but I feel it’s too big for that .
Great massager hot or cold
Lovely massager. Feels great in the hand, and the heat or cold goes on really quickly.