It’s crystal clear: if you’re looking for a strap-on kit, this is the one for you. With a see-through realistic dildo that’s 6 splendid inches long, the comfortable harness adjusts to fit most sizes and ushers you into the wondrous world of strap-on play.
With its suction cup base, gentle G- or P-spot seeking curve, veiny textures and impressive balls, the dildo in this kit covers all bases. Use it with the included harness for strap-on or pegging play, or stick it to a solid surface to enjoy hands-free entertainment.
The harness is machine washable and has a hidden pocket where a bullet vibe can nestle, providing extra stimulation to the wearer during use. Also included are three different O-rings so you can use the harness with other dildos you may have in your collection. Enjoy thrilling strap-on sex by lubing up with your favorite water-based lubricant.
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Looks and does what it say and is pretty beginner friendly
I got it for my girlfriend who hasn’t used one before
And it works great so she learns the ropes and stuff
Works great but loosens up pretty fast and needs constant adjustment and if you’re rough in bed you might need to adjust the attachment from time to time and it hits the top of your vagina and that might make it a bit sore
However the strap feels good and is easy to wash and the suction on the attachment is really good and I mean really good
According to my partner, it was easy to figure out how to put it on and comfortable to wear. We didn't like the realistic dildo that it came with and used a different Lovehoney dildo instead, but that's personal preference. Looking forward to hopefully getting some good mileage out of this! The secret pocket is also interesting, but we didn't try it yet
First time using a strap!
My partner and I tried this strap on a weekend getaway. It was a good experience and felt so good inside of me. While using it, the dildo popped off the strap but I think that was user error-it didn’t stop me from having an orgasm though! We made a mistake and forgot to pack our lube so don’t forget to add some to your cart. She absolutely loved using it and felt so empowered!
My Toy
Just what we wanted , will have some fun now.
Very pleasing and fun
Brought this for me and my girlfriend as im bisexual, its Brought a lot more fun to the bedroom, and is exactly as advertised,it feels great and the straps are comfortable
The strap on
It could be firmer had to turn it upside down to enter my partners asshole my bloke couldn't take it all
It works
Good fun
Excellent!
Great value and great fun
I've never used a strap-on before, and thus didn't disappoint!
My girlfriend loved me climbing on top and using this on her. So much so that she asked to go again almost straight away!
Really good value too.
Not to bad
The straps are a bit flimsy and we had to keep pulling them to make it feeling like it wasn't falling off
very good and easy to use
Definitely recommended!
It's quite sizeable for a Beginner's Strap-On but don't let that put you off. The adjustable harness fitted well, and felt secure - and I'm not a petite lady.
The attachment turned out to be a perfect size.
Definitely recommended by both of us.
Quick delivery
Haven't used yet but arrived in good condition and I look forward to trying
That cock is weird
The cock points the wrong way - away from the gspot and isn’t bendy. It’s uncomfortable. The strap is ok. No orgasms. Couldn’t use it.
Definitely a great choice.
Bought this for me and my girlfriend who is new to toys and she loved it. Not too big. Only thing she requested is something a little more flexible for more positions. Otherwise perfect.
No thank you
Not a fan, material too hard and not movable. Bend was in the wrong position for me or my partner to have any pleasure from it. More painful than anything else.
Very good strapon kit
The dildo is great - good sizing, and I really like the translucency.
The strapon is also good, easy to put on with instructions, looks good, lots of O-Ring sizes. it's not too bulky. The design is really great. It relieves my gender dysphoria too, and the secret pocket allows me to masturbate like a cisgender man! Best experience of my sexual life.
Only down side is it can be a bit confusing to hold it the right way up, but that could just be my eyesight
Strap on
My opinion is that the dildo was quite soft which I’m glad, you can sort of see through it, I suggest buying a little vibrator for the secret pocket it can make it more amazing for both!
Great introduction to pegging!
Trying out this strap-on was an eye-opening experience for my partner and me. From the start, we found it surprisingly easy to use and quick to put on, which eased our initial nervousness. The harness fit comfortably and securely, making it stable during use. The dildo itself felt high-quality, especially considering the price, and had the perfect balance of firmness and flexibility.
As beginners exploring pegging, we found the size of the dildo just right. It provided enough sensation to be exciting without feeling overwhelming. Using this piece of kit added a whole new level of fun to our bedroom play, allowing us to explore different roles and dynamics in a way that felt natural and enjoyable. Overall, it was a fantastic addition to our intimate moments, offering versatility and a thrilling new way to connect.
First time buyer of strapon!
Our first and only strap on! After seeing a video online we wanted to have a little try and pegging. Safe to say he didnt enjoy it however the harness and the dildo that comes with it are great quality and easy to use and fits me as a size 26 female! The dildo is very simple and small and perfect if you wish to try pegging or as just a regular dildo. We use it for double pennetartion some times! We have used the harness with a few of our other dildos as it comes with multiple ring sizes for different dildos and he has used it on me which was great fun. Overall a great harness!
Great quality beginners strap-on
Two parts to this, the harness and the dildo. Dildo first, a great size for beginners who have had a bit of play beforehand, its a nice size and length with a lovely veiny texture. The harness itself is top notch, and even after outgrowing the toy itself, the selection of rings means you can use it with others. Its a high quality harness and can handle much larger toys with ease. Attractive too, maybe a bit annoying to put on during spur of the moment but to be expected
Great for beginners
It was my first time using a strap, the experience was absolutely funny, and exciting. Highly recommended
The dildo has a weird curve that makes it a bit uncomfortable to be used with the strap, but if would say my inexperience was critical.
Beginners strap on
We were beginners at this when first purchased but it’s far from a beginners item
The straps are easy to use and secures nice and not uncomfortable at all
The ring and holder are easy to use and soft on the skin no chaffing
And the dildo is a great size and feels realistic
And for mine and my wife’s fist time roles reversed I’d highly recommend this
Excellent
A great fitting item, that feels secure when worn. The straps are comfortable and the clasps easy to adjust.
The choice of mounting ring is useful and the panel for mounting against gave a one real security and purchase.
The dildo is an excellent size with a great feel
Not just an item for beginners this is real value for money
Good strap on
Slim yet satisfying design, the clear silicone is very unique and I like the fact that this dildo has balls, it adds pleasurable sensation and a bit of realism. The straps were a little difficult to figure out at first but got there in the end. Can also be used in solo play with the dildo so I think that’s quite good quality.
Beginners stapom
Bought this to add a bit of spice to our marriage. Absolutely wonderful and makes my wife feel empowered. Took it slowly and after a lot of lube.
First time!
So I got this for my fiancée to use on me and wow this was fantastic! I always enjoyed her using her fingers and tongue...so we thought we'd try this!
Great for a pegging beginner
This is my first strap-on, so I was a bit worried as I thought the straps might be a bit uncomfortable and rub against the skin (especially the straps that go around the legs under the crotch), however they have been fine so far with no rubbing or other uncomfortable-ness. I bought it when it was on offer, only for the strap, as I already had a smaller dildo to use for pegging, so no feedback on the included dildo. Straps didn't loosen during sex, just had to readjust for different positions, so good in that respect too. We didn't use the dildo, as we already had a smaller one to start off with, but would recommend the strap for a pegging beginner!
Terrible
Hi customer service was terrible , delivery terrible. Don’t get me wrong the item I bought was great but that’s about it. Everything else about this company is terrible and if u want ‘discretion’ and respect please go somewhere else
Excellent!
My partner uses this with and without the strap and gives me immense pleasure! The dildo is flexible and a good size for everyone. Easy to use and easy to clean.
Great item
Bought for trying out on my hubby . First time use was awkward no instructions for straps so took a while . But good product and definitely didn’t d the trick . Not a bad size either . Definitely recommend
Pegging delight
Bought this to introduce my partner to pegging, she found it pretty easy to use and enjoyed using it. I enjoyed being the receiver!
Great introduction tool
Right this was honestly her request and she certainly enjoyed it! We had spoken about trying a strapon and I relented and we bought this. We had a good time trying it its not to big so I didnt feel as threatened as I thought I might when she put it on! Use plenty of lube! She had a great time and found it very easy to assemble, put on and use. The size of the dildo was certainly plenty for a first time introduction to having your mrs go to town on you!
very handy for the beginners.
Exactly What We Were Looking For
Our first strap, and exactly what we were looking for - and better than the complicated arrangements we were previously using. It's a cute little strap. The heart shape and minimalist design helps it look less bondage-y than others (though it still has straps, so still fits that look too...). My partner assures me it's comfortable over clothes too. The plastic face on the outside works really well for suction dildos (or double-ended suction cups) provided the o-ring is also attached. We have no interest in the included dildo just for the reason we greatly prefer glass, but the downward curve looks good for doggystyle and we appreciate one is included.
My favorite size was not among the three o-rings included; however, the straps were really easy to fit onto a cheap ~1" diameter general use o-ring bought elsewhere. It wouldn't fit smaller (but do you really need smaller?).
Just lovely. No regrets.
First experience!
So I’ve never been fond of sex toys until my later ages and my partner had been willing to experiment with me on this journey with the idea that it could be used on both of us (Male and female).
In terms of using it on myself (F), I am a person who mostly idealises vibrators. Most dildos had appear to be too hard, thick or long however this size seems pretty averagely perfect for a starter size for someone like me who hasn’t had a very varied experience. The suction cup is great, and even works in the shower too and holds up. The veins and ribbed texture is interesting however for me, personally It was not my cup of tea. For me, I found it to be a little too hard however I find that more lube can solve this issue. It does bend downwards, which means it may only feel good in certain positions depending on your preferences! This can easily be readjusted with hot boiling water to adjust the bend of the dildo.
For my partners experience (M), he is very new to pegging in any way, shape or form. Initially this seemed intimidating however with lube, it worked just fine! He had gotten used to the design and feel after a couple of tries and I’d say this is perfect for a beginner like my partner. Ideally, for him, he believes that smaller might’ve been a little better however this is just due to lack of experience.
As for the strap-on harness, I find it to be okay. It is comfortable once fitted on however I believe it to be quite fiddly to get on and can take a few minutes which might ruin the mood… In terms of quality it is very good and comes with multiple cock rings to swap out dildos!
All in all, this has multi-purpose use and is a great purchase for beginners like ourselves. I intend to expand my toy collection and reviews in the upcoming weeks!
Firm and discolored
This kit is fine. It was a little lower quality than I expected, but I guess you get what you pay for. The size is a bit larger than beginner which worked well for us, but after only a few uses it became discolored and it is starting to show signs of cracking in the dildo. The harness is decent and easy to clean but not the most comfortable to wear for very long.
Works well
Wow
Brought this strap on to try some pegging play and it doesn’t disappoint. The multiple size o rings are very handy and it’s easy to change them and increase the size of the toy you play with, would definitely recommend
Good for beginners
I have been playing with anal toys for a while but had never been pegged so my wife and I took the plunge when we saw this harness kit on offer.
First impressions of the harness are good. There is a lot of adjustment so it will easily fit a wide range of body shapes and sizes. The glossy finish on the front of the harness gives it a higher quality look and feel. Putting the harness on is a bit fiddly the first time but becomes easier each time.
The dildo is great size for beginners. It’s big enough to stimulate you in right places but not too big to be uncomfortable.
Definitely a good kit to explore strap-on play for the first time and the three O-ring sizes included with the harness allow for larger dildos down the line.
Great
Really excited to get this had lots of fun and like one of your other reviews needs turning upside down,basically the right way up,good product feels and looks like the real thing,bit to big for anal but everything else just great 👍
Excellent
It’s a good strap
Excellent
It’s a great beginners toy.
For pegging
Very very good,
Simple to use with the adjustable straps.
Comfortable.
The dildos that came with it are perfect , slide into the rings easy enough and definetly good usage out of them.
Would recommend
Glorious
The shape the color and the size is amazing. I love the way it droops down slightly. Feels very nice 10 out of 10
Great product, just right length snd girl, my girl loves, we can make love for hours for her to continuously orgasm like never before
Great fun!
Brilliant toy! We had lots of fun with this
Love honey strap on
Really good kit to start off with . The straps were easily adjustable and made for a perfect fit. The dildo provided was quiet large for a first time but the dildo was solid so made for easier penetration over all both partner and I love it
Good quality, not actually used the harness yet but the dildo but am very much looking forward to!
Great value strap on
This is perfect for our first strap on the dido is a good size but take a little practice but once you have done this pleasure all night the wraps a a bit long but this does not distract from the great fun you will have
Excellent
Tried this on my wife and she loved it said it felt like a real cock up her not to big tried it on husband and a bit of pressure and lube and it slid in easily would be good in flesh colour
It great
Easy to use. Comfortable for a male to use and the wife loves it.
To big for this little bottom
I screamed I creed and it tore me wide open god it’s big and hard ohhhh daddy
Great!
This product is nice. It felt really good, my partner and I describe one of the ways it felt was “rough” not bad at all tho. It makes it better in my opinion.It is a little hard to put on took a while if you plan to switch during the deed. Prob best to start with that one then switch to any others . I find that the largest O-ring is better to use it’s not as snug but it doesn’t become loose or anything while you’re going at it. It curves down a little more than you’d think but other than that it’s good to me.
Excellent Toy!
This is a fun toy for couples and for individuals women to get highly and pleasant moments. Is very soft and easy-to-use and clean.
Pleasantly surprised
The harness is comfortable enough. I suggest wearing it over underwear so that the straps don't irritate the skin. The penis is the perfect size for me. I've heard some people complain about the curve. Try turning it upside down. It works both ways for me.
It’s the best strap on I’ve ever used comfortable and stays in place
Great
Wonderful feels amazing love the texture on the dildo 100/100
Good value
Veryyy adjustable straps, comfy fit, great beginner piece, hoping to get something with less scratchy straps later on, but for now she's a keeper!
Sturdy
We have tried others, and this is so far the best made one. Stays in place, and the snapshot hold.
Too Big
Not sure how this is for beginners, will probably be good someday but wouldn't go for it first time.
X
Very easy to use
Try for fun
Does what it says on the tin . Can't fault product. No hassle ordering this. Arrived discreetly boxed . . And on time . Great service.
Perfect For first Timers
I have been talking with my wife for a couple of years now about how I want to be pegged. She has been open to it. She has used her fingers, butt plugs and some dildo's on me, which was fantastic, but it wasn't exactly what I wanted. I bought this, she put it on and it was amazing. Use a lot of lube and make sure your partner preps the backdoor before they put it in. Again, it is fantastic. Felt so good.
Didn't like it the straps are too long and messing about
Big dick
Brilliant love it
Perfect for me and my partner
A really good toy.
Both my partner and I are really into anal - though he is just building up to his first pegging experience. I bought this for when the time comes. I wanted to be sure that I could give him a gentle (but thorough) experience.
I haven't used it on him yet - but I did test it myself. The harness is sturdy and easy to get on / off by myself. Very adjustable (I'm a big girl!). I'll probably end up shortening the straps actually.
The dildo is a great beginner toy. It's a good size, not too challenging but enough that it will certainly get a novice's attention. When used with the suction base, it adheres well.
Extremely pleased
Really good quality, very soft and flexible. Had a lot of fun with it. Even had a little pocket for a bullet, my partner really appreciated that.
Peggalicious
Overall a great price, the dildo is a strange shape as in arching the wrong way
I was able to correct this in boiling water
Good idea to get a bullet vibrator for the her pleasure
Love it, just the right size 👌
Bought this to use with my partner who is in another country and is incredibly in me using it as a strapon on him! I haven't tryed that feature yet as yet to arrive in his country.........but I have used it alone.....and I flipping loved it as its just the right size for me in every way shape and form. I'd definitely recommend buying this and at the amazing price in the sale under 20£. Five star 🌟 from me.
Good starter kit
Nice strapon for beginners, my girlfriend loves to use it.
Comfortable and easy to use
This is brilliant. Really glad we bought it for fun with my husband. It is comfortable to wear and also gives access to me so we can both have enjoyment out of it. It is good because he can hold onto the straps around my legs to pull me closer to go deeper.
Comfortable
Good size for beginners as both giver and reciever
Great product
Fun filled toy
First time user of an item like this. Harness is easy to put on and adjust to your size. Dildo size is good for someone new to using one. We loved using this strapped to pillow for rear entry while giving oral. Next adventure may try pegging! This item will get some frequent use.
Good
This feels good
Oh my god.!!!
Used on the wife before the real thing never has she squirted like she did with this on penis is good size and Also suctions to tiles and mirror multi use is amazing, tempted to reverse roles so she can try pegging on me .!!!
A great starter
Transguy here. First time topping. Great starter. The head of the dildo is a bit prominent, a bit smoother would make the review 5 stars. He enjoyed himself, and it was definitely not a view I’m going to forget any time soon.
Great for Beginners
first time ever buying something like this and it was super beginner friendly, easy to put on and figure out. the curve down is a little weird but easy to get used to!
Think first if you want this or not...
This strap-on was very selling and looked enjoyable. It was funny at first for me and my partner but we got used to it. But, it was fairly disappointing once used:
- very rough material, even with lube
- hurts in certain positions due to the way its shaped
-cant really feel anything after a few minutes
-falls off of the harness very easily
Good harness, odd dildo
I ordered this on sale, mostly just to get the harness. The harness itself is a big confusing to set up but I figured it out and it works well. The dildo itself is odd. Firstly it's not bodysafe, so it would have to be used with condoms. But also it's at a strange angle, with it curving significantly downwards. I could see myself potentially using the curve to my advantage if I were using it by hand, but on a strap-on it's an odd choice.
Love it
Would definitely recommend
Better than expected
Having wanting to expand our bedroom excitement, my wife and I decided to try some pegging. For a beginner this looked too big. Nervously we tried it and was very pleased with the results. A perfect size for a first timer. Stays in place on my wife very well. She enjoyed it as much as I did.
I would definitely recommend this.
Strap on
We used with another bigger dildo and my wife enjoying it a lot..
easy to connect, it does what should do…
Good for beginners
Bought this for me and my partner, we thought we would start with something simple. Firstly, the size is good for beginners, not too large and comfortable for people who aren’t overly experienced. The straps are quite soft too so comfortable to have on for longer periods of time. However, I found the straps were quite confusing and difficult to tighten, but we weren’t overly bothered, it was still fairly easy to use loose.
Added FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many uses but! Then harness is not much of a TURN ON!!!!!!!!
Some devious sexy mind would make it more 'fishnetty' and 'suspenderish'!!!!
Great and easy to use
First time ever using one was very nervous but it was very easy to get on and use. Highly recommend if it’s your first time wanting to try with one.
Great quality and a nice weight but the wrong way round?
This is the first strap-on I've bought in a LONG time, but my girlfriend suggested we might try it so I looked for ages to find one that wasn't too lifelike but has the right shape and weight. It has a lovely cool feel to it and really hits the spot but not when fitted as shown in the picture - we had to fit it upside down to get the correct 'erectness angle', otherwise we found it painful to use in its semi-hard position.
Wife loves it
Great
All about is amazing
Not a full test… yet
Haven’t had a chance to do a full test with the whole set up yet. But have used the dildo. The attraction was the the size and colour - not a fan of anything too life-like, so the clear was a great option. The size was perfect for my experience in anal play. I am new to anal play and this was a good step up from a smaller one. This really got me going. The suction end was good for securing in to a base. The down size was the material. It seems to not clean as well as I would like and because it is clear it stands out. I have ordered a black one now as I really like the feeling this gives but maybe the material isn’t the easiest to clean.
AMAZING! Perfect starter set!
My wife was reluctant to try pegging me. But I had to persuade her it’s a massive fantasy of mine. So she agreed to try it.
Well, what can I say? She loved it as much as I did!
The penis part on this is almost identical to my own one. I actually thought it would be smaller and was kind of hoping it wasn’t going to be as big as it was.
Having said that, the size ended up being perfect.
We have never tried this before. The straps fitted my wife perfectly. They’re compelling adjustable and fit just right to be able to thrust without coming loose.
So she lined it up with the Anal lube we got from this site, I laid on my back ready to be pounded by my wife. She took it slow at first, but pushed the head inside and from that moment I felt like I was drunk.
It’s the best feeling ever! She has used dildo’s on me before, but this time, she can push in and out with her hips and have two free hands. What more could you want?
It didn’t come loose like I thought it would, it stayed perfectly in position during the whole 15 minutes of first use.
Then another time, to justify buying it, I thought I’d try it with her. We strapped it to a double pillow and leant it against the headboard. Now you have your own bonus toy! She can ride that doggystyle while you focus on her face. It’s the toy that keeps on giving! So versatile.
If you haven’t tried pegging. Try it! This particular one was one of my best purchase on LoveHoney.
One of my favs!
Tried this guy out along with 3 others. Only one to make me orgasm. Very firm.
So good!
I lovee this set! Feels very natural and I love how it looks! The shiny black + the clear dildo is definitely a fire combo in terms of aesthetic
Very nice for a beginner
First time ever trying a strap on. It was easy to put on and comfortable. The dildo included was soft with a comfortable girth and my partner enjoyed it, though we may upgrade to a longer one later. Very happy with our purchase.
So excited but...
This was not my first time pegging my bf. I wanted a better harness cuz I’m plus size. The straps all had clips to adjust and it sat comfortably on me. The cock rings that came with it are fine but the smallest one can barely fit over his sack, let alone dick. And for this to say “beginner kit” is a bit of a stretch. The dildo itself is thick and firm; too firm for him, and too thick for me. The dildo barely bends. We’ll use it for certain positions, but not for long periods. I’ll be looking for a new one soon.
Perfect for beginners
My partner and i love it! Perfect size and easy to use. Would definitely recommend to anyone! Perfect for beginners like ourselves. It looks and feels very realistic which is great if that's what you are looking for. Easy to put on if you've never used one before and a video below the product if you need a little more help!
Great Toy for Beginning Strap-On Play
The wife and I had a pretty healthy sex life before I had purchased this strap-on, but I had wanted to take another step and try a toy, something that had more length. We were both so excited to use it when it came in the mail and for good reason! It feels absolutely amazing. My partner is a bit more sexually experienced than I am, so she knew what she was doing. It bumped up our sex life like 100 degrees. The size is perfect and my woman has wide hips, so she really loved how far the straps could be adjusted. We use our strap-on like it's the real deal. So happy with this purchase. Would 100% recommend to couples wanting to experiment or who like an average size toy.
Fantastic starter kit for all sorts of strap-on fun
What a wonderful little starter kit this is, providing all you need (excluding the lube) to kick off a bit of strap-on action. The box's contents not only includes the strap-on and clear jelly dildo, but also has additional, variedly sized O-rings to enable the incorporation of your existing toy collection or versatility of dildo girth at a later date. On receiving the delivery of our kit I had expected to be on the end of a pegging experience that would allow for a detailed review of the feel and quality of the toy, however events did not exactly go as I foresaw. The evening we tested the kit I had expressed to My Princess how desperately I wished to fuck her, however at that time I was sporting the smallest of the cock cages that we own, and it was with a cheeky twinkle in her eye, that my wife/Princess suggested I slip on our new toy and do just that. The harness itself is easy to wear, and my only mistake was in detaching the O-ring from the harness to insert the dildo (subsequent "tests" proved that it was far easier to leave the O-ring on and just add some slack to the necessary parts of the harness). With some simple adjustments the strap-on fitted perfectly over my encaged-nub. My Princess clearly enjoyed the feel of the dildo provided in the kit, it's length and girth being neither to large or too small, and from it's look I would say it would probably be excellent for pegging play in a doggy-style position. Unfortunately (for me) I have yet to experience the kit from a receivers perspective, however I have been made to frustratingly pound My Princess on several occasions since, much to her pleasure and amusement. Due to the design of the harness straps (legs and waist) I could see how this harness would fit perfectly on a woman's body, allowing access to intimate areas whilst still remaining secure. Once again Lovehoney has done a fabulous job of creating a starter kit that contains the basic essentials required to try-out a new kink and I look forward to future sets of a similar quality.
I’m pegging you to try this
After always wanting to give pegging a try, I managed to acquire this clear strap-on kit for beginners. It came in the lovehoney range packaging which ( as per) has clear instructions and hints and tips about its use. On opening and looking at the contents I was greeted with a 6” realistic looking dildo which had excellent detailing of veins and testicals and was placid but firm. The strap-on harness is basic but very easy for a beginner like me to figure out. Just step in and pull tight. It comes with 3 different size rings so you can change the dildo which makes it versatile and open to purchase other dildos should you wish. Being my first time at pegging, I was nervous about how it would feel. A little douching and a lot of lube later, my partner was inserting and I was at her mercy. I can honestly say that it was a different experience and thanks to this great starter kit, we will be exploring pegging a little more.
Strapping Fun
Brown unsuspecting box with speedy delivery! Inside this kit comes in its own bright, nicely designed box with a picture of whats inside. I am lucky enough to already own a LoveHoney harness so I knew what to expect, the build and feel of the material is fantastic. The ring at the front is very secure, the whole thing feels like it will last forever and can take a pounding, pun intended. The dildo that comes in this kit is the first we now own with balls, I dont feel it makes much difference for the receiver but its nice aesthetics. Also the first clear dildo we own, again a nice change. It has a suction cup bottom in case you wanted to use it without the harness. The head of the dildo is the best part of this kit, the 'drop' or ridge going from head to shaft you can really feel, it is in the beginners range but I would strongly suggest something slightly smaller if its your first time. The harness comes already assembled, big plus and it looks tricky to put together. Get this kit :)