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Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit (3 Piece)

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$64.99

Get ready for a red-hot romp with this strap-on kit, including an adjustable harness with two supple silicone suction cup dildos. Choose from a ridged black 5-incher and a smooth red 7-incher, both shaped for G-spot or P-spot play. Looking for extra thrills?

Insert a bullet vibrator into the pocket at the back of the harness and buzz your play to a whole new level. Apply a generous helping of water-based lube to the dildo for gratifying sensations. If you’re using your set for pegging adventures, then be sure to accessorise your playtime with good-quality, water-based anal lube.

Color

red

Material

Silicone

Features

Set | Suction Cup

Insertable Length

6.5 inches

Circumference

4.5 inches

Length

7 inches

Waterproof

Submersible

Customer Reviews (46)

  1. Dookiedo★★★★☆
    March 8, 2026

    HOLE SHEBANG!!

    This was our first time using a strap on. And WOW!! what can I say? Absolutely wonderful. The strap is suitable for beginners and was pretty easy to get used to. For both of us the curved design really hit the spot during sex. However, we found no use for the black one. It just did nothing for us and was way too small. As two AFAB individuals who don’t like anal, it was of no use, however if you enjoy pegging, the smaller dildo may be useful to you. All in all super duper amazing sex! thank you love honey.

  2. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    January 1, 2026

    Amazing amount of fun times

  3. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    October 13, 2025

    Great choice for a bit of fun with a partner. Good size and design.

  4. hatchedlamp7094★★★★☆
    August 11, 2025

    versatile, comfortable, and great for exploration

    A well-designed kit that’s friendly for beginners but still satisfying for experienced users. The harness is comfortable, adjustable, and fits a wide range of body types. It’s easy to swap dildos with the O-ring system, and the set includes two silicone dildos for different sensations. The smaller black dildo is great for easing into pegging or penetration play, while the larger red curved dildo offers more depth and targeted G/P-spot stimulation.

  5. user948★★★★★
    June 19, 2025

    Amazing

    If you are into casual pegging or new, this is absolutly amazing. What you get for the price is really good. The size from the red one is just perfect, big enough to get tons of pleasure while small enough to not hurt.
    The black one is good to help you get ready for the bigger one.
    100% recommendation

  6. Verified-Customer★★★★☆
    January 16, 2025

    Good set to get you started

    Overall this is a good set to get you started. The overall quality is good for the money. The only issue is with the smaller of the two toys. It is just a bit too short to allow much movement by the partner wearing it, and has a tendency to slip out frequently as a result.

  7. AUS L.★★★★★
    November 11, 2024

    Perfect for a first timer

    This was a great introduction to pegging for a first timer. The smaller size was a big help working up to the main event with the bigger size. Also great fun for solo play

  8. heavy-d★★★★☆
    September 26, 2024

    Good combo deal

    This is a nice combo package you can get if you're in the market for a fairly small dildo, good for anal pleasure, and a larger curved dildo, good for vaginal use (or if you are a bit more experienced with anal). As a bonus, the kit is completed by the included harness and ring set.
    My wife has used the red dildo a few times, and while she has nowhere to suction it to, she has used her hands and the look on her face tells me she likes it!
    The black dildo can reach the P-spot and is thin enough that it doesn't hurt or stretch much at all. It's got a suction cup as well that is difficult for me to find anywhere to use it, but works fine in the hand.
    We haven't had a desire or need for the harness yet, but it's there when we want it!

  9. Verified-Customer★★★★☆
    August 28, 2024

    Very nice strapon

    This is great for beginners as it comes with a small and large variant. The pad at the front easily detaches for easy washing

  10. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    June 27, 2024

    Perfect for Beginners!

    This strap on is really easy to use for us as a lesbian couple. For first timers, it’s very straightforward to adjust the straps to suit both mine and my partner’s body types and it’s easy to swap out the rings to fit an array of toys. Neither of us found it uncomfortable to wear. The fact you get the harness, three rings and two toys is great value for money, and totally worth the price. The dildos are a bit firm, but not to the point either of us found them uncomfortable. However, it might not be to everyone’s taste. Bonus points that the dildos can be used separately and suctioned onto surfaces like in the shower! Small complaint is the colour- I would’ve liked everything to be black instead of red, but this makes no difference to the actual use of the strap on. All in all, a great purchase that has spiced up our sex life!

  11. Kylie.87★★★☆☆
    June 25, 2024

    Decent kit

    The straps are nice and easy to get into quickly and pull tight, and the straps feel secure.
    I've only tried the black attachment that came with it, which is a comfortable size, but none of the O-rings provided are small enough to hold it on. Luckily, I have a pack of them from the hardware store so I can be prepared for next time.

  12. ESXCPL★★★★★
    May 10, 2024

    Strap-On Fun

    My partner and I decided to dip our toes into strap-on play, and let me tell you, this kit was a total blast!
    Having the two dildos to choose from was awesome. We could switch things up depending on our mood, and both the 5-inch ridged one and the 7-inch curved one hit the spot in their own ways.
    The harness took some getting used to but was surprisingly comfy once we got it adjusted right. It's super adjustable, so it fit both of us just fine. And those suction cups on the dildos? Genius! They kept everything in place, leaving our hands free to explore even more.
    Overall, this kit made our first strap-on experience way more fun than we expected. Whether you're newbies like us or seasoned pros, give it a shot!

  13. Verified-Customer★★★☆☆
    February 1, 2024

    Does the job, could be improved.

    Works as it should, but the toys that come with this kit are uncomfortably firm, and the button snaps aren’t the best quality. ( One snap broke after only a few uses)

  14. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    November 30, 2023

    Great pairing

    Ordered this expedited shipping in order to pair it with a toy we previously ordered, King Cock Ultra Realistic Girthy 8.5 and it was AMAZING! I’m a 6”L but 6.25”G so she’s used to something wide. The length allowed us to try positions that just doesn’t work all the time.
    The harness works great, completely adjustable and with the biggest ring, accommodated the toy with a bit of effort. The King is a solid 7”G so it took some pressure to get in but the harness allowed me to use it like it was solidly attached to me. After we had a gummy, massive make out session and some petty, she was warmed up and ready to go.
    We started out spooning and it was great. Being behind her, getting to play with her 36DDs, kissing on her was having the intended effect. Moaning, panting and grinding were getting things down the road. Due to the additional length, she was hesitant on how far I could go in but she was enjoying herself. After a bit, we moved to doggy style.
    Our arousal was building, and she was backing into it about 6 or so inches. The harness was rock solid and she even reached around to grab my hand to put on her clit to rub it. That never happens as she doesn’t like direct, hard stimulation once she is that aroused. I was amazed at how tight her lips were and her hood was stretched tightly around her hard, hard clit. I rubbed while she rode and it was great but couldn’t get over the top.
    We changed positions so I sat on the bed, back on the headboard and she could get on top and control the depth and rhythm herself. She lowered herself down and started to ride the normal 6 or so. I got the opportunity to suck on those lovely tits and kiss her. I noticed her nipples were rock hard and jutted out like pencil erasers which only happens when she is very excited. The harness never needed adjustment this whole time and I could feel her get close but not quite there. The potential energy building up was going to make for a MASSIVE orgasm when it hit.
    We finally went back to spooning, no adjustment on the harness, and I decided to take the lead on this. I played with those incredible tits, tweaking her nipples, moving her hand to rub her clit, and started talking to her. The harness allowed both of us to believe it was my appendage and I let her know how good it felt while I was pumping her. I told her how I loved my thick big cock stuffing her tight box and told her to take it all like a good girl. Well at this point, she started to get more and more in to it and the harness held everything in place.
    I could hear the panting get faster, the moaning getting more guttural, and knew this was going to be it. I told her she had stuffed almost all 8 inches in that tight box and that was it. The fast paced panting stopped, her hips slammed down on me and she started her orgasm. It was massive and went on so long I thought she might pass out since she had stopped breathing. When she started breathing again after about 25 seconds, it was sounds I don’t hear too often. Her O went on another 10-15 seconds and she stopped moving her hips. I pulled out of her and again, the harness had not moved at all. Her legs didn’t stop shaking for about 5 minutes and she couldn’t talk for most of that time. Her nipples stayed rock hard for the next 30 minutes which I don’t see too often.
    Long story short, like wine with dinner, the harness was the key to an amazing session. It adjusted to me, was solidly held in place, kept the toy in place and provided us one of the more satisfying experiences we’ve had playing with toys together. There are no cons with this as it does exactly what you would hope. I’m SURE this combo will happen again. She just needed a day or two to recover from that!

  15. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    September 27, 2023

    Brilliant for first time strap-on users. Wife found it comfortable and easy to wear/adjust. Comfortable for first time after trying to decide where to start and which one of the many options to chose from

  16. Verified-Customer★★★☆☆
    September 21, 2023

    Pretty good toy

    The harness is great, found the larger dildo a bit hard, but the size is fine, I’m am buying a more malleable dildo to use in the harness

  17. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    September 7, 2023

    Comfortable and easy to adjust, different ring sizes are ideal and easy to swap over

  18. Dez★★★★★
    July 31, 2023

    Amazing

    Great set and amazing value. The red dildo is thick but the taper of it makes it pretty easy to bury all the way fairly quick if you use lots of lube. Harness is easy to use and lots of room for different body types.

  19. A★★★★☆
    July 3, 2023

    It is great!

    I haven’t used it with my (trans) boyfriend yet but I did use it on myself and I preferred the smaller black one, the red one gets thick at the base but I’m new to this stuff so I could probably get used to it, the strap on is easy to put on!

  20. Verified-Customer★★★★☆
    June 13, 2023

    Good product

    Need a little time to put it on and adjust straps etc but once on a very good product. Keeps slipping through the ring though and sometimes positioning isn't right.

  21. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    March 15, 2023

    Present

    They liked it.

  22. Kinkycouple★★★★★
    March 1, 2023

    Mine and wifes first pegging

    Wife metioned strapon so i bit the bullet looked and found this 1, looks nice and the 2 dildos swung it for me (plus was on sale so super happy) when it arrived me and the wife opened it up and looked great, black dildo is quite small and me as a first timer took this with ease but great for any anal first timer, will be trying bigger one tonight ;) looks great on my wife too and now me and the wife are loving uor pegging experience, highly recommended, thanks lovehoney

  23. Verified-Customer★★★★☆
    February 3, 2023

    Did the job

    Comfortable, the adjustable rings are easy to change and it’s easy to use

  24. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    January 10, 2023

    demon dick

    had gay sex with it and it was amazing

  25. Verified-Customer★★★☆☆
    August 14, 2022

    It does the job, works well for beginners

    My (he/them) girlfriend (she/her) and I are trans so I got this harness for her to use on me when her ED is acting up, we use it for PIV and haven't tried it for anal thusfar.
    The harness itself fits both my partner and I which is great as we're both plus size (my waist is about 45 inches) and the straps are thick enough to not be uncomfortable in use and it comes with 3 sizes of O-ring for different sized toys, I'd say it's a good beginner harness.
    We've tried both the red and black dildo in this kit, the red is very uncomfortable for me and almost feels "grating" even with an abundance of thick lube, I much prefer softer and shorter toys so this wasn't suitable for me. I've given my girlfriend the red toy to try anally solo hoping it'll work better for her than it did for me.
    The small black dildo is similar to being fingered, it has small ridges that feel similar to knuckles which is enjoyable for me. I usually use the short black one for some internal stim while I use a wand or similar externally because it is a bit too short to really work in the harness for us due to our tummies.
    I'd say this was a worthwhile purchase for my partner and I as we were looking to see if a strap on would be suitable for us without spending a bunch of money, now that we know it does we'll invest in something higher quality.

  26. OlderDude★★★★★
    June 6, 2022

    Amazing piece of kit, and great value too

    Wife & I were interested in trying out pegging, but as a total newbie I was keen not to spend too much as it may have been just a once and done thing.
    Saw this and figured that the strap would be cheap but the 2 different dildos should give us enough to find out if we liked it and could upgrade if we wanted to carry on.
    When we recieved the package, its clear that the quality of the strap is very good, they are easy to put on and get comfortable and tight, the Dillon’s are firmly held and the 3 different sized o rings mean a range of dildos can be used.
    Having trialled this I quickly purchased a bigger dildo but the strap os still going strong.
    A really great device, strongly recommend

  27. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    May 10, 2022

    Wow

  28. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    April 17, 2022

    Amazing!!!

    This has definitely spiced up the bedroom. Great started kit.

  29. Gav★★★★★
    February 1, 2022

    Pegging fun

    Got this to try pegging with partner, she found it easy to use and enjoyed the frill of being in control. I found the black dildo better for prostate stim.

  30. B&E★★★★☆
    September 3, 2021

    Perfect Pegging Passion

    My Partner and I brought this to try pegging for the first time. I had used some butt plugs and prostate toys before however really wanted to go further. Using the smaller dildo felt fantastic and the subtle ridges felt great. The larger red dildo is a big step up and I haven't been able to enjoy that yet, however with time I am sure that will change.

  31. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    July 25, 2021

    awesome

    good snug fit

  32. Lindsey L.★★★★☆
    July 14, 2021

    Good starter kit

    Great for beginners. Harness is a bit uncomfortable for my small frame but got the job done! Red dildo has a GIRTHY base, too thick for my gal, but surprisingly the little black one was her favorite. Even though I thought it looked laughably small.

  33. Verified-Customer★★★★☆
    June 6, 2021

    Yes yes yes

    So easy to use and my partner loved it! Great starting point for new bedroom play. We can’t wait to use again tonight.

  34. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    March 13, 2021

    Perfect

    Fits me perfect! My partner and I have been wanting to buy a harness for so long and this one passed our expectations. Love it. We love the red dildo more cause the black one is a little small but it’s nice.

  35. Him★★★★★
    March 3, 2021

    Amazing!

    Me (male) and my partner (female) were looking for something a bit easier for me to take. Having this for a few months now it has give me some leg shaking orgasms. The small one is amazing for me as I can take it as hard as I like. The bigger size is also amazing when I want something bigger. Have also use this to DP my partner and she has had some crazy orgasms

  36. Verified-Customer★★★★★
    February 11, 2021

    great

  37. Jade S.★★★★☆
    January 31, 2021

    Overall an okay product

    This set is very sleek overall, the dildo is sleek and smooth with a very soft but still hard feel. The only problem is that the harness slips a little, but it can sometimes be helpful if you wanted to use a different dildo with this harness.

  38. Phillip K.★★★★★
    November 11, 2020

    First strap on

    The red dildo is firm and smooth. We are not new to anal play, but took some convincing of my wife to try this. I was finally able to experience an anal orgasm! Can't wait to try again.

  39. Jupejackal★★★★★
    September 12, 2020

    First strap, love it

    This is a good strap for the price. It’s very adjustable to fit all sizes, I’m a size US 16 and I had to cut off a lot on length from the straps. However, there isn’t anything to hold the excess straps, so they hang down. Not a big problem, but not cute in photos. The toys are nice. The small one is a perfect starter size for anal. My boyfriend and I worked up to the bigger toy in about two days. Both of them are stiff, not flexible, whether that’s good or bad comes down to preference. I like more flexible toys, personally, the red toy hurts me. My boyfriend likes it though.

  40. Yellow H.★★★★★
    August 19, 2020

    Great starting piece

    Me and my partner have been dipping into anal for a while now but we decided to go full out with this. The smaller black dildo is great to start out with and just hits the spot, although after a while we upgraded to a larger size. the red one is a little too long for the Mr and is a little too stiff for me. the hardness itself is great as a starter but we will be looking for a leather one soon as the red belt has started to fray a little, but still hold up great.

  41. Crossbun★★★★★
    July 27, 2020

    Great kit

    The harness is great. Coming to this from a cheaper, less sturdy harness was such an improvement! It feels really secure, and can be used with many different dildos because of the different sizes O rings supplied. I bought this because the toy was silicone, and it feels very nice, hygienic, easy to clean. I like how it looks and feels to wear. My partner dislikes how rigid it is, and we had to give up using this one because of that. It does have some give to it, but is definitely much harder than a non-silicone, plastic toy. It was very easy to switch out different toys into the harness, though. I really recommend it just for the harness alone! It is easily adjustable so it sits in just the right spot for me.I have washed it often and it has withstood that, too!

  42. Sophie01★★★★★
    July 11, 2020

    Great strap-on

    I check on the deal of the day page everyday to see if their is anything I'm interested in as I'm always up for a good deal and it was like Lovehoney was reading my mind. For the past week i have been contemplating buying a strap-on and it was like a sign when i saw this for a sale price. I just had to buy it. I already own the dildo that this comes with and it is hands down the best dildo i have ever used in my life. Everyone should own one of them. As far as the straps part they are adjustable and fit comfortably. Looks pretty good quality. Would highly recommend if you are looking for a strap-on.

  43. Amanda94★★★★☆
    June 14, 2020

    Good Value For Money

    For the price it is very good value for money. My (F) and my gf find it brilliant and have had no issues with it. Size of the dildo is good and not too thick to be uncomfortable. The harness is slightly uncomfortable and does not always feel secure and sometimes comes loose. Overall it is a good starter strap on.

  44. As W.★★★★☆
    September 22, 2019

    Red Hot Romp Strap-on Harness Kit

    This is a great introductory strap-on kit. The harness is simple and could fit almost any size. There are three o-rings and a padded, neoprene base for the dildos. There is a pocket for a bullet to fit behind the base of the dildo but this is not included. There are two dildos which are made from soft silicone. The smaller black one is not much bigger than a thumb but a bit longer. The larger red one is tapered for easy penetration. They would suit a beginner to pegging as the small one is not in any way intimidating. The next size up has a good curve to give some prostate stimulation and it is a great second step into pegging. I don't think this would be used by a man on a woman but it could also be used by two females. This is perfect for people wanting to try pegging. It looks good and feels great!

  45. Spoonerism★★★★★
    September 18, 2019

    Basic Strap-On Fun

    Disclaimer out of the way: I was sent this kit by Lovehoney in exchange for this review, though this is the sort of product I would be likely to buy myself anyway. Me (F) and my partner (M) are well versed in the ways of strap on sex and this kit is perfect for couples just starting out. It comes in Lovehoney's usual own brand packaging - a cardboard box with a picture of the product and some basic info. Inside is a basic jock style harness and the two dildos in separate sealed plastic bags for hygiene. I could have done without the plastic as both toys are made from silicone which I boil before use anyway! First off, the dildos. They are both made of the same super smooth silicone and feel quite nice to just stroke. The firmness in my opinion is perfect for beginners to anal penetration/pegging in particular (though of course are perfectly fine for vaginal use as well). They are not unforgiving and hard but also not soft and bendy which can make first attempts at penetration awkward if you don't know what you're doing! I feel perfectly in control when wearing these toys, particularly the larger red one. This also has a hole in the base to insert a bullet if you feel like it though this doesn't work if you've got it in the harness as too much of the bullet pokes out. My partner found both toys pretty comfortable if smaller than what we usually play with! The small wavy black one is really quite tiny, slightly larger than my index finger so for us that got boring pretty fast. The red one is fine, if a little "pokey" and intense so it's not his favourite but that's down to personal taste. Onto the harness: It is a very basic affair made from a couple of straps of nylon webbing, with a light padded driver pad at the front. It comes with three different sized o-rings which is brilliant as it allows you to use bigger or smaller dildos depending on your preference. I personally had always avoided this cheap style of harness as it has a bad rap for being uncomfortable. However I found this was not necessarily the case. While yes, I still prefer my beautiful soft leather harnesses or even the increasingly popular panty style ones, this harness really isn't that bad. It is quite easy for me to adjust (though the buckles might not work so well if you have mobility/joint issues in your hands) and once in place it does not move around. There is no minimum size so you can get it as tight as you want it. It is also extremely accommodating for plus size users too - I am a size 14/16 with 44 inch hips and there was A LOT of excess strapping both around my hips and thighs to the point I have had to trim them as they just get in the way. Unlike in the product photo, the driver pad actually sits much lower down over my mons which is exactly where you want it to be for optimum control. My main negative point: The strapping does chafe a little, particularly in the crotch area which is not ideal. It wasn't bad enough to distract from the enjoyment of the act, but it did remind me how much I prefer my other softer harnesses. However, if you're just starting out/experimenting or don't really play with strap ons that often then I don't think it's a really big deal. Overall I can't really knock this kit. It is unintimidating and has everything you need to get going straight out of the box.

  46. Bigtrak★★★★★
    September 16, 2019

    Pegtastic

    This is a review from both of our perspectives. FROM HIM I adore being pegged. We already have a starter set and welcomed this new version. Firstly it comes in a nice little box. Nothing special, white with a picture, LH logo and description on the front. Quite compact. Inside was the harness, 2 different sized dildos and three different sized rings so you can add your own sized dildo if you so wish. The harness looks quality for the price. It's padded at the front with adjustable straps. It also has a slot for a bullet vibrator. The first dildo is bright red and has a circumcised penis style head. No detail just the shape. The second is much smaller and balck in colour with no real detail of any sort. The harness was easy to change the O rings. 4 poppers hold it in place and you can easily slide the dildo in. The harness has black straps to go around the legs to hold in place. Now we started with the larger dildo. I take dildo's fairly easily using my fave anal lube FISTING. We applied plenty and I relaxed and took it all. It's the perfect size. I could probably take more than it's 6 inches in length but not the girth. The curve of the dildo really hit the spot. Every stroke was of sheer pleasure and adored watching my wife take me with every thrust. I lasted several minutes and came close to orgasm on a few occasions without any penis stimulation. Something I so wish would happen but has eluded me. Then once she touched me for only a few brief seconds an orgasm of Olympian stature ripped through my body. I always get my biggest orgasms with anal stimulation and this toy hit the spot. It was one of those where you just lose consciousness for a few seconds and drift into the land of Euphoria. Wow! Now I was a touch sore, and I usually am, the day after with that size dildo. A personal thing maybe but I always am happy to take that to experience the pure pleasure. We took a few days out then tried the smaller dildo. Now this was easy to take. I looked at before hand and felt extremely unimpressed. I would never buy this size on it's own. Well again I watched my wife thrust away and was surprised at how much I enjoyed this size. It never was ever going to fill me up like the last one but was very pleasurable. I did orgasm and it was a lesser orgasm but however still better than masturbation. I was definately not sore after this and would now happily choose this if I wanted that pegging joy without the pegging soreness. FROM HER I will just review the harness as I do not take dildo's anally. The harness is very comfortable and actually looks very nice and feels great quality. However the straps don't quite seem to grip me solidly enough. I always feel like it's slipping slightly. It did the job on both occasions and would use again.

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